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Posts tagged Rose Kennedy
By James W. Graham, author of Victura: the Kennedys, a Sailboat, and the Sea
Rose Fitzgerald’s father had doubts about Joseph Kennedy, but it’s a good thing she didn’t listen
100 years ago, on Oct. 7, 1914, John F. “Honey Fitz” Fitzgerald, having just finished his term as mayor of Boston, walked his daughter Rose down the aisle to marry a guy he had doubts about. Sure, the bridegroom was then the youngest bank president in America, but Rose hadn’t dated around enough.
The man waiting at the altar was Joseph Kennedy, and their wedding probably influenced the course of American history more than any before or since, thanks to the fruit of their union. Of their nine children, three became United States senators: Edward, known as Ted; Robert, who also became U.S. attorney general; and Jack — John F. Kennedy — who became a president of no small consequence.
The other children round out the epic American story. The oldest, Joe Jr., died a hero’s death in World War II. Kathleen married the heir to a Duke but lost him in the war less than a month after losing her big brother. Kathleen died at 28 in a plane crash in France. Patricia married a Hollywood leading man, and Jean married a shrewd businessman who became a trusted financial and campaign adviser to the family. Rosemary was intellectually disabled, which led sister Eunice to pursue a lifelong calling that effectively redefined popular understanding and acceptance of people with disabilities through such programs as the Special Olympics.
Joe and Rose were not a perfect couple by most standards. He was unfaithful, for years carrying on with film star Gloria Swanson. As parents, though, they did something indisputably right.
Of course, their children had the best education then available, from boarding schools to colleges like Harvard, Stanford and Princeton. Joe famously led spirited dinner-table discussions of public affairs and drove them to fierce competitiveness in sport. With Rose’s Catholic faith as moral compass and Joe’s money as enabler, the children followed lives dedicated to public service.
And then there was sailing.
When he was president, JFK said privately that the family’s reputation for competitiveness, and his father’s insistence on winning at everything, was often overstated — except in that one arena. Most of the children were obsessive about sailing and winning races. Their parents bought them mostly small boats at first. When they became a family of ten, they named one of them Tenovus. With the birth of the youngest, Ted, the family named another boat,Onemore. In 1932, Joe and Rose bought their children a 25-ft. boat that Jack named Victura. The 15-year-old, a mediocre student of Latin, chose a word that meant “about to conquer.”
Jack and his big brother Joe later teamed up on the Harvard sailing team to win a major intercollegiate regatta. Not long after, they both went into the Navy, where Joe Jr. died and Jack narrowly survived a sinking of the boat under his command. Fifty years later, Ted said it was Jack’s experience on Victura that saved his life and most of his crew. Jack sailed Victura on Nantucket Sound through his presidency. Bobby and Ethel loved sailing it so much that a painting of the two of them sailing Victura hangs to this very day on the dining room wall of Ethel’s home at Hyannis Port. The painting was one of three of that boat, commissioned in 1963 by Kennedy sisters as Christmas presents for their three brothers. Jack did not live to receive his.
When Ted died in 2009, among the many eulogists were four who all told stories of sailing with Ted on Victura. By then 77 years had passed since Joe and Rose bought it. All the children of Joe and Rose, and the Kennedys who came after, told and still tell stories of sailing together. But the sailing was nothing, really, compared to the other things they did.
Before Jack died, he and his brothers loved talking about the space program that got us to the moon. Astronauts were sailing a “new ocean,” said Jack. Eunice campaigned tirelessly for her brothers and successfully made the capabilities of people with disabilities a cause all the family embraced, to this day. Now, together, they work on environmental causes, human rights and children’s interests.
To this day, the grandchildren and great grandchildren of Joe and Rose continue to pursue public service and, yes, sailing. They race boats identical to Victura, even taking them the 30 miles between Nantucket and the very same moorings their grandparents used all those years ago.
At a gathering for Rose Kennedy’s 100th birthday, Senator Edward M. Kennedy described his mother as “the quiet at the center of the storm, the anchor of our family, the safe harbor to which we always came.” Rose, who died in 1995 at the age of 104, had strong ideas about child rearing. Reading and religion were important but so was having fun together as a family — whether it be sailing, skiing, or playing football.
The new book “Rose Kennedy’s Family Album” (Grand Central) features excerpts from letters and a selection of images from the thousands in the archives of the John F. Kennedy Presidential Library. The photographs date from 1878 to 1946 when John F. Kennedy won the Democratic nomination during his first campaign for Congress. In the final picture, Rose, already a veteran campaigner, is at her son’s side. Decades earlier she had accompanied her father, John F. “Honey Fitz” Fitzgerald, on his rounds of Boston’s neighborhoods as he campaigned for mayor.
After President John F Kennedy’s assassination in 1963 his mother re-purchased the house in Brookline, Massachusetts, where he had been born. Rose Kennedy oversaw every detail of its restoration, even recording an audio tour for visitors to hear as they explored the rooms where the future president spent his boyhood years.
At its dedication to the nation in 1969 Rose said: “When you hold your baby in your arms the first time, and you think of all the things you can say and do to influence him, it’s a tremendous responsibility. What you do with him can influence not only him, but everyone he meets and not for a day or a month or a year but for time and eternity.”
Rose gave birth to nine children between 1915 and 1932 and dedicated her life to perfecting them: “My ambition was to have my children morally, physically, and mentally as perfect as possible.”
Born in 1890, at the height of Victorian mores, Rose’s commitment to perfection resulted from a devoutly Catholic upbringing, including a year spent studying in a Prussian convent. Never a feminist, she rose to prominence in a patriarchal family, religion and society by mastering the secondary female roles ceded to her. Yet it was Rose’s propensity to micromanage her household that helped create the face of the Kennedy political dynasty.
The era of the Kennedy presidency is often referred to as an “American Camelot”.
It was Rose’s daughter-in-law, Jacqueline Kennedy, who first made the comparison just one week after JFK’s assassination.
“Don’t let it be forgot, that once there was a spot, for one brief shining moment, known as Camelot,” recited Jackie: her husband’s favourite lyric from the Broadway musical about the mythical King Arthur.
“There will be great presidents again but there will never be another Camelot,” she lamented and succeeded in ensuring that, even a half-century after its tragic end, mention of the Kennedy presidency conjures up the idea of a golden era.
However, it was Rose who had produced the princes of this legendary realm. She learned to present a flawless public persona as the daughter of John Fitzgerald, the first US-born Irish-American mayor of Boston.
Christening ships, presiding over parades, campaigning at her father’s side; Rose, the Belle of Boston, loved the spotlight.
She fell for Joseph P Kennedy as a teenager. Married in 1914, they produced their first child nine months later. While Joseph made millions on Wall Street and in Hollywood during the Roaring Twenties, Rose supervised their children’s physical, mental and spiritual health.
Only two generations from the Irish potato famine, she guarded the children’s well-being and kept track of health records, diet, exercise and weight. Fanatical about oral hygiene, Mrs Kennedy spent years ferrying her offspring to orthodontists who perfected the famous Kennedy grin.
She led her children on daily walks and visits to the nearby Catholic church. Her youngest child Teddy, who would serve nearly a half-century in the US Senate, attributed his policies for the poor and afflicted to the faith his mother instilled in him. Rose encouraged due diligence in writing, grammar, public speaking, foreign languages, and history, as well as travel abroad.
At the dinner table she promoted current events discussions, often posting newspaper articles for the older children to read and debate over meals. Jack’s haphazard approach to his studies prompted maternal letters to the headmaster, informing him that her son “hates routine work but loves History and English, subjects that fire his imagination.”
Jack’s slovenliness and tardiness also agitated his punctilious mother. Even when he was president she admonished him not to place his hands in his pockets because it ruined the tailored look of his jacket.
The Kennedys had burst on to the political scene as Joe worked to elect Franklin Roosevelt president in 1932.
Simply having nine children garnered attention and Joe’s stint as a Hollywood producer made him a mass communications impresario. Meanwhile, Rose became a media maven, following photographer Hal Phyfe’s advice to present her family in flattering poses for newspapers.
Joseph became US Ambassador to the UK in 1938 and Deborah Mitford, Dowager Duchess of Devonshire, declared that the Kennedys “caused a sensation because no diplomat had ever arrived with nine children attached. And the chief thing that amazed [the British] was Rose”.
Her girlish figure and fashionable wardrobe drew media in droves. Until the Second World War forced Rose and the children home, she honed her diplomatic skills during weekends at Windsor with the Royals, presentations to the King and Queen at Buckingham Palace and dinner for the monarchs at the American embassy.
Teas, receptions, balls and banquets, where she hobnobbed with the statesman and intelligentsia of pre-war Europe, gave her a lifetime of anecdotes to share on the campaign trail, starting with Jack’s standing for Congress in 1946. Her presence was crucial to that win, and all of his victories on the road to the White House.
Kennedy teas became the family’s quintessential weapon in its campaign arsenal. Women voters received engraved invitations to attend receptions with Rose, Jack and his sisters at posh hotels. Coiffed and primped, attendees would queue around the block to shake the Kennedys’ stories of her London experiences.
By 1962 former presidential candidate Adlai Stevenson hailed Rose Kennedy as “the head of the most successful employment agency in America”. With Jack in the White House, Bobby in the Cabinet as attorney general and Teddy in the US Senate, she had reached the pinnacle of maternal success. Yet over the next seven years she would lose Jack and Bobby to assassinations, and Teddy would destroy his chances to restore a Kennedy presidency.
The matriarch spent her next two decades burnishing the family’s image with her 1974 memoir, media appearances, and prodigious philanthropy for the disabled in honour of her eldest daughter Rosemary, diagnosed with mental retardation as a child and ultimately the victim of a botched lobotomy ordered by her father.
In public Mrs Kennedy embodied courage, stoicism and unshakable religious faith. The private woman behind the public icon, however, suffered from the unfathomable tragedies that befell her. For solace she turned to travel, shopping and sedatives. Yet this touch of humanity only adds depth to her one-dimensional persona familiar to Camelot fans. When Rose died in 1995 at 104, Teddy looked forward to the day when she “would welcome the rest of us home” to heaven.
A Victorian mother, dedicated to shaping her children’s public virtue and masking their private failings, Rose Kennedy paradoxically lived a classic Irish-Catholic myth of birth, death and resurrection.
An event at the Kennedy Library in Dorchester to celebrate the book that had been scheduled for Tuesday, Oct. 8, has been postponed because of the federal shutdown and will be rescheduled. Rose’s nephew Thomas Fitzgerald and her granddaughter Kathleen Kennedy Townsend were set to share family stories. Former Boston Globe columnist Eileen McNamara was scheduled to moderate.
"We were incredibly close, all of us, through all our younger years and after. The Cape house was our base. Our whole lives were centered in this one place. It was all here — all the playing, all the enjoyment, all the fun. For me it still is. And always shall be."
— Senator Edward Kennedy in his memoir, True Compass
History of the Kennedy Cape House in Hyannis Port, Massachusetts
When Joseph P. Kennedy and his wife Rose Fitzgerald Kennedy purchased the home at 50 Marchant Avenue in Hyannis Port on October 31, 1928, they could not have known the important place it would hold both to their family and to American history.
Few families have impacted American life in such far-reaching ways as the Kennedy family, and it all begins with nine siblings and two amazing parents. The home in Hyannis Port, described by Senator Kennedy as “the base,” is the place where values were taught, lessons were learned, characters were built, and history-making events took shape.
It is the place from which three United States Senators grew up, one of whom became President. It was home to the Kennedy sisters, who dedicated their lives to people with intellectual disabilities by founding the Special Olympics and the Very Special Arts. Their contributions through numerous charitable works have touched the lives of millions of Americans.
The history of the house dates back to 1904. Beulah A.B. Malcom had a 15-room, white clapboard house built at 50 Marchant Avenue in Hyannis Port, Mass. The site was about two and a half acres, with a lawn running down to Nantucket Sound.
The Kennedys rented the house for the summer for several years before purchasing it themselves. At time of the purchase the house, the family included seven of the Kennedys’ eventual nine children. Over the next two decades the house was remodeled and expanded to accommodate the growing family.
John F. Kennedy purchased a nearby home in 1956, and shortly thereafter his brother Robert also purchased a neighboring house. For a time Jean Kennedy Smith and her husband Stephen E. Smith owned a home in the neighborhood as well. This cluster of family residences became known as “The Kennedy Compound.” Eunice and Sargent Shriver owned a home nearby as well.
The Kennedy family became an integral part of the local community. They considered this area their home. In 1957, to honor eldest son Joseph P. Kennedy, killed in World War II, Mr. Kennedy donated $150,000 toward the construction of a skating center in Hyannis because, as he said in the letter dedicating the center, “Here, in this lovely and friendly area our son Joe and his brothers and sisters lived and laughed and grew through many sunny and happy days.” (The Fruitful Bough, 1965)
"One of the first things that I remember on arriving at your home was the regular noontime swims with you and Mr. Kennedy and all the children down at the Taggart’s pier. The children all looked forward to being with you and displaying their swimming and diving ability and how they improved. It was great fun when you and Mr. Kennedy would form a big circle with the older children and then Teddy, Jean and Bobby would swim first to the nearest them and gradually work up to the farthest away."
—Elizabeth Dunn Anderson, a governess writing a recollection about Mrs. Rose Kennedy in Grace Above Gold (1997)
As the children grew, they spent the summers learning to sail and swim in the waters of Hyannis Port. The competitive touch football games, made so famous in iconic family photos, were also a regular occurrence on the large lawn adjacent to the house.
When remembering his brother Joe Kennedy, John F. Kennedy wrote, “We would spend long hours throwing football with Bobby, swimming with Teddy, and teaching the younger girls how to sail.” Younger brother Teddy had his own memory of his big brother, when Joe threw him into the cold water during a sailing race. “I was scared to death practully. I then heard a splash and I felt his hand grab my shirt and then he lifted me into the boat. We continued the race and came in second.” (As We Remember Joe, 1945, with young Teddy’s uncorrected spelling.)
Their time learning these skills impacted them throughout their lives. Senator Edward Kennedy attributed to those swimming lessons his brother John’s survival in the water for days when his PT boat sunk during World War II. The competitive streaks that became ingrained in the family were evident during political fights in the years to come.
Growing up at the house, the children were also exposed to various leaders and dignitaries who came to visit Joseph Kennedy, who joined the Roosevelt Administration, first as chairman of the Securities and Exchange Commission in 1934 and then as head of the Maritime Commission in 1937. Prominent visitors joined the children’s friends as guests for dinner, and one frequent presence was Richard Cardinal Cushing of Boston.
The house was also the site of major political decisions. In August 1945, John F. Kennedy, decided to run for the House of Representatives in 1946, the first of his six winning elections. In the spring of 1952, the family house was the site of meetings to plan JFK’s successful campaign for the Senate that year against the Republican incumbent, Henry Cabot Lodge. Political aides of JFK, like Larry O’Brien and Kenny O’Donnell were frequent guests. And in November 1956, John F. Kennedy, in consultation with his family, decided that he would seek the Presidency in 1960.
On Election Night 1960 and the day after, many members of the family stayed at the house as they gathered to follow returns and then celebrate JFK’s victory. The well-known post victory family photo, with President-elect and Mrs. Kennedy, his parents, siblings, and their spouses, was taken in the living room of the house.
Throughout the summer in 1961, on weekends, JFK’s helicopter would land on the lawn after he flew in to nearby Otis Air Force base. That summer he stayed at his own house, and met with Administration officials there. But in 1962 and 1963, seeking greater privacy, JFK rented homes on Squaw Island, a half mile away, where his youngest brother, Edward M. Kennedy, had a home. Visitors like Averell Harriman came to report on negotiations that produced the Nuclear Test Ban Treaty. The National Security Council met at Squaw Island in 1963.
In July 1982, the house became the main residence of Senator Edward Kennedy. A few months later, he gathered ten family members, including nieces, nephews, and his own three children, for a meeting to talk about whether he should run for President again in 1984. They held the meeting on the day after Thanksgiving next door at President Kennedy’s old house, and he was persuaded not to run, but rather to make the Senate his life. His children were the most decisive voice. In December 1985, he decided not to run in 1988 and assembled staffers and associates at the house to tell them and to make arrangements to tell the country.
He still used the house in connection with his Senate duties, making it a command center in the summer of 1987 as he prepared for hearings on the nomination of Robert Bork to the Supreme Court, and in the summer of 2005 as he prepared for hearings on the nomination of John Roberts to the Supreme Court. But it was largely a place of respite, where he sailed, relaxed, and entertained, delighting in showing visitors the historic pictures that crowd the walls, and the theater from which, as a boy, he was ushered off to bed when the movie action turned romantic. Governors, Senators, President Clinton, then-First Lady Hillary Clinton, then-Chancellor of the Exchequer Gordon Brown and a series of Irish Prime ministers were among his guests. Some came for events, but many came just to talk in the morning and sail in the afternoon. Members of the extended Kennedy family returned every Thanksgiving.
In a rare formal function at the house, on September 23, 2008, President Michelle Bachelet of Chile presented Senator Kennedy with her nation’s Order of Merit, a human rights award for his support of democracy in Chile.
Sadly, the Kennedy family has weathered tragedies both public and private. It was September 1939 when the war changed the Kennedys’ lives dramatically. Joseph P. Kennedy was serving as ambassador in London, doubtful about Britain’s chances, when war broke out. He promptly sent his wife and children home, to the house on the Cape and their other homes in Bronxville and Palm Beach. Then on Sunday afternoon, August 13, 1944, two priests came to the Cape house to tell Joe and Rose that their eldest son, Joseph P. Kennedy Jr., a Navy pilot, had been killed in action.
Their second son, John F. Kennedy was on hand, recuperating after heroism in the Pacific. To cheer the other children up, he took them out sailing that afternoon. Nearly four years later, most of the family gathered again at the house after receiving the news that Kathleen Kennedy Hartington, the Kennedys’ fourth child, had died in a plane crash in France.
On November 22, 1963, Senator Edward Kennedy and his sister, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, flew up to Hyannis Port from Washington to tell their father that President Kennedy had been assassinated in Dallas.
Several years later at the house, on November 16, 1969, Joseph P. Kennedy, 81, died. His beloved wife Rose lived to be 104, passing away also in the home on January 22, 1995.
On May 17, 2008, Senator Kennedy was in his beloved Cape house when he felt the effects of what would be later diagnosed as a malignant brain tumor. On June 2 he underwent surgery at the Duke University Medical Center and returned home to the Cape to recuperate. Later that summer he worked at the house on the speech he would deliver at the Democratic National Convention in Denver, saying Barack Obama as President “will close the book on the old politics” and lead a “renewal for our nation.”
On August 25, 2009, in the home where it all began, Senator Kennedy died at the age of 77.
"There is nothing half so pleasant as coming home again."
—Margaret Elizabeth Sangster (American poet and editor)
The Kennedy family has been coming home to Hyannis Port since the early 1920’s and continues to, to this day. The house on 50 Marchant Avenue has been the site of numerous family weddings, baptisms, and other celebrations. Most recently, Senator Kennedy’s son, Patrick was married in the summer of 2011 at the house.
In fulfilling his mother’s wishes that the home be preserved and open to the public in some way, Senator Kennedy made preparations for the donation of the house to the Edward M. Kennedy Institute for the United States Senate. His widow Vicki Kennedy gifted the home to the Institute in December 2011.
On this photo: Joseph P. Kennedy, Rose, Rosemary, Eunice, Patricia, Bobby and little Teddy.
Young mother Rose and her children; little Jack with sisters Rosemary, Kick, Eunice and baby Patricia (around 1924)